Masculinity in a Wheelchair

Posted on July 3rd, 2026


We are taught that a man's strength is measured by the space he commands and the weight he can lift. But what happens when the body stops cooperating?


There is a particular kind of silence that follows disability...

Why Disability Pride Month Isn't for Me

Posted on July 1, 2026


July marks Disability Pride Month. For many disabled people, it is a time to celebrate identity, community and acceptance. I genuinely respect that. Everyone has the right to decide what disability means to them.

 

Personally, however, it is not something I identify with...

Finding Freedom Again: My First Week with the Scoozy S800


Posted on June 24, 2026



11th June 2026 is a date I suspect I will remember for a very long time.


It was the day my new Scoozy S800 arrived.


Now, …

The Myth of "Inspiration"

Posted on June 19th, 2026


If you spend enough time as a disabled person, you begin to notice a pattern.

People rarely see you as simply another human being.

Instead, they tend to place you into one of two categories.

You are either a tragedy to be pitied or an inspiration to be...

Missing Memories and My New Set of Wheels

Posted on May 15th, 2026


They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Personally, I think whoever coined that phrase never had to navigate a shag-pile carpet in a wheelchair while trying to remember whether they actually liked olives, or if that was just a pre-aneurysm personality trait …

A World Not Designed For Us

Posted on March 5th, 2026


There is a window in my room. On the days when my body refuses everything else, when getting up is impossible and the world …

To the Doctors Who Titled Me "Too Complex"

Posted on February 7, 2026


There is a particular kind of exhaustion that does not come from illness alone, but from being sent in a circle.


Not …

Welfare Reform and the Language of Suspicion

Posted on February 13, 2026


How rhetoric shapes public perception of disability and benefits


Welfare reform in the United Kingdom is routinely …

When the Clinical Road Ends

Posted on January 15, 2026‎‎

There are moments in life that do not announce themselves as turning points until long after they have passed. Others …

Fightback 2026

Posted on January 8, 2026

The New Year is quietly under way. It is Saturday 3 January 2026, and as I write this, snow is falling steadily outside my …

Ignored, Delayed, Discarded

Posted on November 14, 2025

When I was first admitted to the Norfolk and Norwich University Hospital in October 2023, I told my wife I would be left …

The Hidden Cost of Independence

Posted on August 21, 2025

For most, saving for a flat or a car represents a key milestone—a significant step towards independence.

But for many …